At Thriving Villages, we know that while disabled people can experience relationships much differently than those who are not disabled, they are equally deserving of a safe, healthy loving, relationship. We also know It is important to know the characteristics of healthy and unhealthy disabled relationships, as well as what consent looks like for disabled people.

Learning about healthy relationship behaviors for disabled relationships can help disabled individuals learn how to express their needs and create expectations. Healthy relationships include healthy communication, and there are several different characteristics of a healthy relationship:

• • Comfortable pace: the relationship moves at a pace that feels enjoyable for everyone.
  • Honesty: being truthful without worrying how the other will respond.
  • Respect: you value each other’s beliefs and opinions.
  • Kindness: both parties are caring, supportive and empathetic to one another.
  • Healthy conflict: being open and respectful to discuss issues.
  • Trust: being confident that your partner won’t hurt you or ruin the relationship.
  • Independence: you can be yourself outside of the relationship
  • Equality: everyone puts in the same effort.
  • Taking responsibility: being accountable of what you say and do.
  • Fun: you enjoy spending time together.